Saturday, November 19, 2011

Have a Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving!

Friday, November 18, 2011


I would like to apologize for not updating my blogs. There have been many things going on that I have not been able to add this to it. We moved, because of the move I have been in more pain, my pain medication was changed so I am a little sleepier (or that could be from kids that don't sleep I don't know :D ).
Our house is chaotic as it is, I think the stress of the move had gotten everyone out of sync and out of routine (which is really bad here!).
 I am hoping by next weekend I will be able to get back at it and get serious again. I just wanted to let you know that I haven't forgotten and I do plan on continuing them.
Thank you for sticking with me, and I hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Today's Positive Post

The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.
~ E. E. Cummings

A simple video I found on youtube :)

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Thank you, Lord, for assuring me that no situation is ever hopeless- and for the peace and quiet!
~ Sabra Ciancanelli

Monday, October 17, 2011

Today's Positive Post

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found thier way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.
~ Elizabeth Kubler Ros

Taken from Kids Come First Coalition facebook page.

Friday, October 14, 2011

Today's Positive Post

And Asa cried to the Lord his God, "O Lord, There is none like you to help, between the  mighty and teh weak. Help us, O Lord our God, for we rely on you, and in your name we have come against this multitude. O Lord, you are our God; let not man prevail against you."

~ 2 Chronicles 14:11


Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Today's Positive Post

But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen

~   2 Peter 3:18

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Today's Positive Post

This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him and saved him out of all his troubles.
~ Psalm 34:6

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Today's Positive Post

found here
There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has n ot been perfected in love.

~ 1  John 4:18

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

~Ephesians 4:31-32

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Today's Positive Post

picture found here
Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

~ Luke 11:19

Monday, October 3, 2011

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Father, show me how to cherish, protect and preserve the world on which You've lavished the water of life.
~ Elizabeth Sherrill

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Friday, September 23, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am.

~ Philippians 4:13 (MSG)

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Today's Positive Post

He who heeds descipline shows the way to life.
~ Proverbs 10:17

Just a little something to remember when you are about ready to give in!!!! Have a Blessed Day:)

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Today's Positive Post

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
~Romans 15:13

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Monday, September 12, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Lord, whatever today brings, give me the strength to keep holding on to You.
~ Mark Collins

Friday, September 9, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Lord, help me remember that You hold me just as securely whether or not I worry.

~ Julia Attaway

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Dignify those who are down on their luck; you'll feel good-thats what God does. God looks after us all, makes us robust with life-lucky to be in the land, we're free from enemy worries.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Today's Positive Post

...For the gift bestowed upon us by the means of many persons thanks may be given...
~II Corinthians 1:11

If you feel you have nothing to be thankful for, please look real hard. There is always something, whether it be that you are alive, have a roof over your head, the sunshine to warm you up and bring warmth into your heart, and most of all you have God by your side. All you have to do is talk to him.

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Thank you, Lord, for your gifts large and small. Help me to share them with others.
~ Roberta Messner

Friday, September 2, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name.

~ Psalm 100:4

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Today's Positive Post

I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be.

Monday, August 29, 2011

Today's Positive Post

I'll bless you every day, and keep it up from now to eternity. God is magnificent; he can never be praised enough. There are no boundaries to his greatness.
~Psalm 145:2-3

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Friday, August 26, 2011

Today's Positive Post

O God, I thank You for this day of life, for eyes to see the sky, for ears to hear the birds, for feet to walk amidst the trees, for hands to pick the flowers from the earth, for a sense of smell to breathe in the sweet perfumes of nature, for a mind to think about and appreciate the magic of everyday miracles, for a spirit to swell in joy at Your mighty presence everywhere.

Taken from Jesus Daily on Facebook.

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Finallly, brethren, farewell. Be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you.
~ II Corinthians 13:11

Monday, August 1, 2011

Today's Positive Post

God, our paths are littered with courageous failures. Let me always remember that oftentimes I have to be bad before I can be good.
~ Edward Grinnan

(maybe a good thing to remember when it comes to our kids too huh?!)

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Friday, July 29, 2011

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Today's Positive Post

I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
~ II Corinthians 12:9

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Behold, the Lord thy God hath set the land before thee...fear not, neither be discouraged.
~ Deuteronomy 1:21

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Today's Positive Post

I lift up my eyes to the hills-where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth.
~ Psalm 121:1-2

Friday, July 22, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Lord, when I get caught up in the daily grind, help me remember the wonderful party you have planned.
~  Amanda Borozinski

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Lord, thank you for all the adventures we can have in this glorious world. Help me to enjoy them wisely.
~ Patricia Lorenz

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened."
~Matthew 7:7-8

Monday, July 18, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Caring God, thank you for using my efforts to strengthen and encourage young hearts to strengthen and encourage me.
~ Oscar Greene

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Today's Positive Post

No, dear brothers, I am still not all I should be but I am bringing all my energies to bear on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead.
~Philippians 3:13

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"Haven't I commanded you? Strength! Courage! Don't be timid; don't get discouraged. God, your God, is with you every step you take.."
~ Joshua 1:9

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Let us always be open to the miracle of the second chance.
~ Reverend David Stier

Monday, July 11, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Cheerfulness, it would appear, is a matter which depends fully as much on the state fo things within as on the state of things without and around us.
~Charlotte Bronte

Sunday, July 10, 2011

New Coupon List

Head on over to the Coupon List page and check out the newest local coupons!

Today's Positive Post

Treat people as if they were what they should be, and you help them become what they are capable of becoming.
~ Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Hope in the Lord; for with the Lord there is unfailing love and an overflowing supply of salvation.
~ Psalm 130:7

Monday, June 27, 2011

Today's Positive Post

picture found here

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those that are crushed in spirit.
~ Psalm 34:18

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"Don't sin by letting anger gain control over you." Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry.
~ Ephesians 4:26

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Today's Positive Post

May God be merciful and bless us. May his face shine with favor upon us
~ Psalm 67:1

Friday, June 24, 2011

Today's Positive Post

The LORD will judge his people and have compassion on his servants when he sees their strength is gone and no one is left, slave or free.
~ Deuteronomy 32:36

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.
~Psalm 25:5

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Today's Positive Post

There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One of these is roots; the other, wings.
~ Hodding Carter

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Picture found here
Compassion for myself is the most powerful healer of them all.
~ Theodore Isaac Rubin

Monday, June 20, 2011

Local Coupons List!

Finally got caught up and finished my local coupon list!
I hope it helps anyone that needs it.
If you have any questions about it let me know. Don't be afraid too leave a comment :)

Today's Positive Post

Picture found here
Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless!
~ Mother Teresa

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Today's Positive Post

For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.
~ Romans 15:4

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Today's Positive Post

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
~ Isaiah 41:10

Monday, June 13, 2011

Today's Positive Post

The cure for anything is salt water- sweat, tears, or the sea.
~ Isek Dinesen

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Today's Positive Post

The LORD is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. He is my God, and I will praise him, my father's God, and I will exalt him.

~ Exodus 15:2

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Photo from here
Attitude is a paintbrush. It colors everything!
~ Saint Exupery

Friday, June 10, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Don't wait for all the lights to turn green; if you do, you'll never leave your driveway.
~ John C. Maxwell

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it.
~ Harold S. Hulbert

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Today's Positive Post

“Exude happiness and you will feel it back a thousand times.”

Monday, June 6, 2011

10 Reasons To Think Positive

10 Reasons to Think Positive
            I tried coming up with a list for why a person would want to think positive. Maybe give a little motivation to want to do it. :) 

1. Happier- you become an all around happier person. You are not stressing yourself out with all the negatives.

2. More Patient- because you are happier, you have more patience to deal with the daily chaos of life.

3. Healthier- while some stress is good, there are many stressors that cause unhealthy living. Emotional eating, deepening depression, anger, heart problems, lung problems if you smoke, to name a few. When you think positive there is less of a need for these unhealthy coping mechanisms. You want to feel good.

4. More energetic- negativity takes alot of energy and drags a person down. Negativity may seem easier at the time, because you have to conciously think positive, it is more energy zapping in the long run.

5. Friendlier- when you are happy, you are nicer.

6. More approachable- because you are friendlier, peolple are more apt to want to talk to you, to not be afraid of you, or steer clear of you. You draw people in.

7. Life feels a little easier- when you think of all your blessings, you concentrate on the good parts of life. You also become something of a magnet for good things.

8. More Peaceful- when you are thinking positive, you don't concentrate on all the little negative things going on.

9. More Productive- because you have more energy, you have more time to get other things done. You have more "brain" power to concetrate on what you need to do.

10. Role Model- you become a better role model for your children. You teach them how to become a happy, positive thinking person. Helping them to lead a better life.

I am sure I missed a few reasons. These are all I could come up with right now. If you can think of anything let me know!!!

Today's Positive Post

Change your thoughts and you change your world. 
~ Norman Vincent Peale

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Today's Positive Post

The heavens tell of the glory of God. The skies display his marvelous craftsmanship.
~ Psalm 19:1

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Today's Positive Post

O Lord, hear my plea for justice. Listen to my cry for help. Pay attention to my prayer, for it comes form an honest heart.
~ Psalm 17:1

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Today's Positive Post

“You don't get to choose how you're going to die, or when. You can only decide how you're going to live.”
~ Joan Baez

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

~ 1 Thessalonians 5:11

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Today's Positive/ Encouraging Post

Since you are my rock and my fortress, for the sake of your name lead and guide me.

~ Psalm 31:3

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Now, our God, we give you thanks, and praise your glorious name.

~ 1 Chronicles 29:13

Monday, May 23, 2011

Today's Positive Post

In the day that I called, you answered me. You encouraged me with strength in my soul.
~ Psalms 138:3

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"Prayer for Today: Today I will focus on what I have....instead of what I don't.  Today I will focus on those who love me...instead of those, whose love I crave for. Today I will sigh with gratitude for the Blessings that universe has already bestowed upon me...instead of asking for more. Today I will just be ME." - Motivational Thoughts

Saturday, May 21, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”
~ Francesca Reigler

From: Kids Come First Coalition from Facebook :)

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Do not throw away this confident trust in the Lord.
Remember the great reward it brings you!
Patient endurance is what you need now,
so that you will continue to do God's will.
Then you will receive all that he has promised.

~ Hebrews 10:35-36

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Today's Positive Post

And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.
~ Galatians 6:9

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Just Curious

I have a few concerns and was wondering if any of you have my answers?! I know I will speak with his doctor about them, however the dr.s don't know nearly as much as the parents do!  :)

I don't know if it's medicine, timing, summer, something else going on, or just him. I know that will all of his rages and for the most part he can be very much like a 4 year old. However, lately I have noticed that he seems to be regressing in the maturity area. He was in an ok mood yesterday (thank you God!), and I noticed that he was playing very much like a 6 year old would. He has been reading the Harry Potter books (nothing is wrong with that mind you), I know he has read them before, but this time he seems to be totally getting into them, he doesn't want to wake up to reality and wants to live in his book.

Yesterday after school, my other half found him sitting outside with his fishing tool, cutting a twig up. My first thought was he was trying to make a spear ( he has been so mean). We took the knife away from him (which he shouldn't have had anyway!) and asked him what he was doing. He was trying to make a wand. One like what Harry Potter has. Taking the knife away did not discourage him, he found a large sharp rock and finished what he was doing.

Anyway, with the help of his dad, and my other half, he now has a wand like Harry Potter's. Just waiting to stain it! He was walking around outside last night yelling out the spells that he has read about. Totally not something he has done in the past. In general he acted like a little boy again. He was even ecstatic when my other half gave him the wand when he was done with it. He is wanting to play with younger kids more often. When we got home the other day he saw a group of 6-8 year old boys (maybe younger) and he yelled, "yay, now I have someone to play with!". These boys are half his age!

Now don't get me wrong, I am totally happy if he is happy (in a good way, not over the edge happy). I am not complaing about any of this. He has always been more immature than kids his age, but it seems to be more noticeable lately. Anyway, I was just curious...

Oh and his probation officer thinks he may also have Borderline Personality Trait Disorder- but thats for another day.

Thanks for any answers, private or otherwise :)

Many Blessings

Today's Positive Post

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
~Proverbs 3:5-6

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Today's Positive Post

But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.

~ 2 Thessalonians 3:3

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Today's Positive Post


This one is for M and all of our kids. It's hard to remember this at times, especially the low times...

Monday, May 9, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous; is not proud; is not conceited; does not act foolishly; is not selfish; is not easily provoked to anger; keeps no record of wrongs; takes no pleasure in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth; love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things.
 ~I Corinthians 13:4-7

While I heard this at a wedding I went to on Saturday, I believe that this fits motherhood too! Especially ones with Special children! Happy Late Mother's Day :)

Friday, May 6, 2011

Today's Positive Post

Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble, and he saved them from their distress; he sent out his word and healed them, and delivered them from destruction. Let them thank the Lord for his steadfast love, for his wonderful works to humankind.

~Psalm 107:19-21

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"...'Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops

What if Your healing comes through tears

What if the thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near

What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise..."
~ "Blessings" from the ablum Blessings by Laura Story

Saturday, April 30, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

Now may the God who gives perseverance and encouragement grant you to be of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus;
~ Romans 15:5

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Today's Positive Thought :)

When the world says, "Give up,"

Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."

~Author Unknown

from: NAMI facebook page

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

And Jesus Christ our Lord was shown to be the Son of God when God powerfully raised him from the dead by means of the Holy Spirit. Through Christ, God has given us the privilege and authority to tell Gentiles everywhere what God has done for them, so that they will believe and obey him, bringing glory to his name.
~ Romans 1:4-5

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

And we urge you, brothers, warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone.
~ 1 Thessalonians 5:14

Friday, April 22, 2011


 It was the third hour when they crucified him.
~ Mark 15:25

Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do now know what they are doing."
~ Luke, 23:34

Then Jesus, crying with a loud voice, said, "Father, into your hands I commend my spirit." having said this, he breathed his last.
~ Luke 23:46-47

"For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life."
~ John 3:16

Today's Positive Verse

"No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from my Father."

~ John 10:18

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Last Supper Verse (kind of long)

When the hour came, he took his place at the table, and the disciples with him. He said to them, "I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer; for I tell you, I will not eat it until it is fulfilled in the kingdom of God." Then he took a cup, and after giving thanks he said, "Take this this and decide it among yourselves; for I tell you that from now on I will not drink of the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes."
Then he took a loaf of bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to them, saying, "This is my body, which is given for you; Do this in remembrance of me." And he did the same with the cup after supper, saying, "This cup that is poured out for you is the new covenant in my blood. But see, the one who betrays me is with me, and his hand is on the table. For the Son of Man is going as it has been determined, but woe to that one by whom he is betrayed!"
~Luke 22:14-22

Today's Positive Verse

the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed.
~ Isaiah 53:5

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
~ 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Friday, April 15, 2011

Today's Positive Verse :)

Now glory be to God who by his mighty power at work within us is able to do far more than we would ever dare to ask or even dream of - infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, or hopes.
~ Ephesians 3:20

Monday, April 11, 2011

Today's Positive Post

casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you.
~ 1 Peter 5:7

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.
~Isaiah 40:31

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

He gives power to those who are tired and worn out; he offers strength to the weak.
~ Isaiah 40:29 (NLT)

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

"But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him."
~ Jeremiah 17:7

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

In the multitude of my anxieties within me,Your comforts delight my soul.
~ Psalm 94:19

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
~ Psalm 118:24

Friday, April 1, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

Sorry they have been few far between. Hopefully next week will be a better week :)

I have told you all this so that you will have peace of heart and mind. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows; but cheer up, for I have overcome the world.
~  John 16: 33

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Today's Positive Thought :)

Coming together is a beginning, staying together is progress and working together is success.

I feel that this could be looked at a few different ways. Ok, a couple anway.
1st I thought about how it relates to marriage.
2nd I thought about how it relates to seeing a psychiatrist or therapist. If you don't work together you don't get anywhere, or any better.

I hope everyone has a wonderful and Blessed Sunday!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

“Search for the Lord and for his strength; continually seek him.”

~ 1 Chronicles 16:11

Friday, March 25, 2011

Today's Positive Quote

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned. So as to accept the one that is waiting for us.

~  Joseph Campbell

From Kids Come First Coalition

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.
~ Romans 15:3

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

"It must be me."

Blame...we all do it.

As a mom of a special needs child ( I still have a hard time saying that.) you know that we tend to blame ourselves for everything involving our children.
You also know that other people blame you for your childs "behavior". I know we have all hear it. "Why can't you control your kid?", "What kind of parent are you to let your child behave like that?", "He doesn't act like that here, so it has to be the home environment...".

My brain knows that it is not my fault. My brain tells me (yells at me) that it is not my fault. The problem is that my heart does not believe it. As a mom in general we blame ourselves or worry about all the "wrong" things we have done while parenting (cause you know we are supposed to be perfect parents!). As a special needs mom I blame myself everyday. Every battle, every rage, every threat of running away or killing himself, every time he cries "Why can't I just be normal like the rest of the kids?".

Just when I thought I was doing okay with not blaming myself (my husband is a wonderful supporter), I got it from his "new" psychiatrist today. I wanted to walk out of her office and cry. Of course I had to be strong, he was with me. So instead of going to the mall we came straight home (I think that mall would have been a disaster anway now that I think about it!). She told me that he would have less anxiety if I spent more time with him. When?!?!?! When he is in the middle of hitting me because he is not getting his way? When he is swearing at me and telling me how awful I am because he has to clean his room, take a shower, do homework, whatever is setting him off at that time?!

I do try to spend good time with him, however, it usually ends up bad. I did or said something "wrong" to set him off again.

I will not blame myself as I go to bed tonight. It is not anything I have done to make these things happen. I will not cry when I go to bed. I did my best today and right now, that is all that matters. Everyone can tell us it is not our fault, we didn't "do" anything to cause this, it us ourselves we need to tell these things to.

I thank all of the friends I have made through various blogs, groups, social networks, etc... for all your support and non blaming ways! If I not had all of you, I would probably be in a hospital instead of fighting with him.

Today's Late Positive Verse

" May your unfailing love rest upon us, O LORD, even as we put our hope in you."

~ Psalm 33:22

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

God is our protection and our strength. he always helps in times of trouble.
~ Psalm 46:1

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

In light of yesterday being 3-16 and because I didn't think of this then, here you are...

For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son so that whoever believes in him may not be lost, but have eternal life.
~ John 3:16

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Today's Positive Psalm

Great peace have those who love your
law; nothing can make them stumble.
~ Psalm 119:165

Monday, March 14, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

God is not a God of confusion but a God of peace...
~ 1 Corinthians 14:33a

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Today's Positive Psalm

I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.
~ Psalm 4:8

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
~ 1 Peter 5:7

Friday, March 11, 2011

Earthquake and Tsunami

Prayers go out to everyone involved in this tragic crisis.
Image: Video still from NHK coverage of the earthquake & tsunami in Japan (Courtesy of NBC News)

Today's Positive Verse

For whatever is born of God is victorious over the world; and this is the victory that conquers the world, even our faith.
~ 1 John 5:4

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Today's Positive Psalm

Evening, and morning, and noon, will I pray, and cry aloud: and he shall hear my voice. He hath delivered my soul in peace...
~ Psalm 55:17

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the holy spirit.
~ Romans 15:13

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

'I will grant peace in the land, and you will lie down and no one will make you afraid. I will remove savage beasts from the land, and the sword will not pass through your country."
~Leviticus 26:6

Monday, March 7, 2011

News to me!

I always try to be super mom, super wife, cook, house cleaner, you name it I try to do everything, too much and all at the same time.
Naturally this doesn't work. My husband has been trying to tell me this for years. With 4 kids, it didn't take long for me to realize that I am not super mom. I have moments where I wish I was, but I know I am not.
When I started blogging, my intention was to try to do a major blog with everything I enjoy and what is important to me. I had difficulty making that flow, so I added two more blogs.
There are days where I cannot even make it on this one let alone do what I need to for my other ones. I think I have written 3 posts on one blog~that one has become combines with this one~for my sanity. I need these positive thoughts.
The next blog I started was my saving money and super shopping in my area. I liked this one, I love to shop and have no money to, so how perfect!
When I tried a blog challenge, I found myself so overwhelmed by what I already was behind in doing that I never participated. See, I was trying to be a super blogger! One that knew nothing about it at that!
Therefore I have come to the conclusion that I need to concentrate on one blog.
With everything going on my home, I know in my heart this is the one I need to concentrate on for awhile. This one holds my heart. It's about my son, myself, my family and trying to keep sane amongst it all.

Today's Positive Verse

It is by faith that we have to live, not by what we can actually see.
~ 2Corinthians 5:7

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
~ Philippians 4:7

Friday, March 4, 2011

Today's Positve Verse

"The LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace."
~ Numbers 6:25-26

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Today's Positive Psalm

The Lord says, "I will make you wise and show you where to go. I will guide you and watch over you"
~ Psalm 32:8

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

“God gives me power when I am worn out and strength when I am weak.”
~ Isaiah 40:29

From K-LOVE Morning Show Facebook fan page.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

The Lord shall fight for you, and you shall hold your peace.
~Exodus 14:14

In the begining of the year K-LOVE (Christian radio station I listen to) was talking about picking one word to concentrate on for the year.
My word was peace. For so many reasons peace fit and everytime I thought I would choose a different word, peace kept coming back. It just fit. It seemed as though God wanted me to concentrate on that word.

After everything that has heppened in the last 2-3 weeks and especially last night, this one just brought tears to my eyes when I saw it this morning.
It is truly hard to remember that God is there helping us when things are difficult.
Many Blessings to you and may PEACE be with you :)

Monday, February 28, 2011

Today's Positive Thought

We are either the masters or the victims of our attitudes. It is a matter of personal choice - blessing or curse.


Sunday, February 27, 2011

Today's very late Positive Quote

Sorry today's positive thought is so late. But better late than never right?!

Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know.
~ Proverbs 3:5 Good News

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Today's Positive Quote

"Keep your face to the sun, and you will never see the shadows."
~ Helen Keller

Friday, February 25, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

If you go the wrong way-to the right or to the left-you will hear a voice behind you saying, "This is the right way. You should go this way."
~Isaiah 30:21

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Monday, February 21, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

"As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you..."
~Isaiah 66:13

-I know as for myself, especially with the way things have been around her lately, that I need to remember that God is there to comfort me. That not only does he help me through everything, he is also there for me to seek comfort when I feel that I am alone and when I think I can't do it anymore.
Thank you Lord, for everything you have done and continue to do for us. :)

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Today's Positive Post

"We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles. You are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future."
~ Steve Maraboli

From Motivational Thoughts fan page on Facebook!

Monday, February 14, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

Moses told the people, "Don't be afraid. Just stand where you are and watch the Lord rescue you."
~Exodus 14:13

Friday, February 11, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger
~ Proverbs 15:1

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

Give all your worries to Him because He cares about you!
~ 1 Peter 5:7

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

So, don't worry because I am with you. Don't be afraid because I am your God. I will make you strong and will help you; I will support you with my right hand that saves you.
~Isaiah  41:10

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Today's Positive Verse

My brothers and sisters, when you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience. Let your patience show itself perfectly in what you do. Then you will be perfect and complete and will have everything that you need.
~ James 1:2-4

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Today's Positive Prayer

Serenity Prayer
    God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Today's Positive Quote

"There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self."
~Aldous Huxley

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Today's Positive Thought

"Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony."
~ Mahatma Gandhi

Monday, January 31, 2011

Today's Positive Thought

Happiness is a habit cultivated.

~Menards weekly ad 1/30-2/13

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Todays Positive Thought

Why worry and have wrinkles?
When  you can smile and have dimples.
It's hard to be mad.
It's easy to be glad!

~ Taken from

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Today's Positive Quote

“You've done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities. Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable, determination."
~Ralph Marston

Monday, January 24, 2011

Parent Teacher Conference

Ok, so M had a parent teacher conference tonight. We left him home, thought it would be easier. Well it was easier for us, but poor C was watching R for us and well, M was completely out of control. We told him to stay in his room. That if he was not in his room the whole time we were gone, he would have to go to bed when we got home. We should have known better. What were we thinking?!?!?! Thank God nobody got hurt, he just got R all wound up and acting crazy with each other. Now he is at it again! Yelled at hubby to shut up and m ind his own business and to leave him be, while he is yelling at me...I don't know how we are going to get through this.

Anyway, conference, he is such a different person at school. He is doing so well! According to teachers anyway. His grades are awesome and if it weren't for late assignments, he would have straight A's. With the things he tells me that happens at school, I would expect there to be other issues. But they say no. He is a good student. No problems or very few...What gives?

How can he be two totally different people? I know kids in general are better for other people than they are their parents, but really? Come on?! I mean a total 180 different.

So much for thinking, or rather hoping, the school was finally going to put him on an IEP. They were supposed to be testing him last week and this, they still haven't. So if they don't put him on an IEP, or they won't help pay the tuition part of RTC then we wait until he is 12 and keep sending him to the state hospital. Not really something I want to do. Not at all.

I am not sure how hubby thinks I should feel about M. Or that I need to be there for him, no matter what.

If you have one child with special needs and one without, do you ever feel like you have to choose between the two? Like I am scarring R for life because of the things M does, or that I might lose R if we should split up because of M? I just don't get it. I love both of my children with all of my heart and would do nothing to hurt them. So why do I feel like I am hurting both of them?


We finally had a nice morning. Yay!!!! There could be two different reasons for this. 1. My husband was home...2.We started him on Abilfy. Ok, I guess three reasons...3.He worked at it and was feeling good this morning. I guess I will find out tomorrow since my hubby will be at work in the am. But today was nice. How awesome it is to start the day getting along and no fighting, yelling, screaming, swearing, hitting, throwing, etc.

This weekend started rough, although I am not sure when rough stopped! He made some threats about his principle at school and with the mood and mind set he has been in, we were all kinda worried. So, I brought him to see an on call children's counselor. He fought with me the whole way there. Told me he was not talking to some gay person. Ok, so this was the first time he had to see a man. Boy did he let this counselor have it. Swore at him, told him he wasn't talking to him. Yelled at me that all this was my fault. And on and on. There were times that if I closed my eyes, I could see his dad saying those things to me. M is getting to sound more and more like his dad~which is really scary. We were going to admit him to an acute behavioral hospital 1 1/2 hours away. It would have been awful getting him there, but is that was what we had to do, then so be it. Naturally they did not have any open beds. So we were put on a waiting list. He is still home.

M went to his dad's after that appointment. His dad lets him do what he wants so there weren't too many problems there. M came home Sat. after ice skating and kinda stayed down in his room. We had some trouble but not terrible. Sunday he wanted to go ice skating. i had no cash to give him so I said no. He got mad, said he was going to his dads to get money. Well, not 20 mins later he was home crying. He got bit by a dog. I so hope he was telling me the truth, but you never know. This big black lap got out of the gate when his owner was trying to get out. Jumped on M and bit him on the elbow and the back by his shoulder blade. M is ok. Just superficial wounds and scared. We called the police and reported it and went to the er. (which is quite funny and coincidental, but that story is for another time). He is fine, no stitches, nothing broken.

Guess what? If he would have stayed home like he was supposed to, or if he didn't go down an alley that is further down the road than his dad's; he would not have gotten bitten. I told him this and I just got a glare! Oh well, he is safe and home, that's what matters.

I hope you all have a good week and I will be back again! No telling when ;)

Today's Positive Psalm

Come and listen, all you who fear God; let me tell you what he has done for me.
~ Psalm 66:16